The_barBEARian said:
FLBear5630 said:
The_barBEARian said:
Realitybites said:
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I see a lot of younger people with cars, going on vacations, and other things that took my wife and I 20 years to achieve. Flying a family of five on a vacation to Hawaii? For the first 20 years vacations were car trips to visit family The number of young people flying? I ask every time I travel how can they afford that at 32? If it wasn't work, flying was a special occasion. Wanting to live in a certain City. We went where the work was until we could get to where we wanted. Now people just won't move.
Don't confuse the rise of SINK/DINK Epicureans with a stable society, prosperity, or a future.
America is doomed as a nation because it lacks the basic fundamentals of a successful one: a secure border, a stable currency, a shared language, and a shared culture. We had those things once.
Things are deteriorating to the point that I recommend learning a second language to accurately discuss ideas free of political correctness and have accurate sources of information.
Great post Reality.
FLbear's wife was probably a stay at home mom. That's a good thing! But impossible in today's climate unless you win the lottery.
I wouldnt mind the loss in quality of life if it felt like a sacrifice towards a more unified culture, instead our culture has been burnt to the ground along with our quality of life and nothing was received back in return.
My wife is an RN. She has worked the floor in patient care for 33 years. She worked nights, risking health, when the kids were in school so they had someone home. Got our home with a VA mortgage. I deployed for 6 months during Desert Storm. Went and got a Masters at Baylor because BS was not enough to get a decent job. Maintained a higher than comfortable debt load to pay for Catholic School because it was worth the better education. Never took a vacation that wasn't visiting family until 20th wedding anniversary. Moved 7 times.
Is this special? NO. It was normal people do and have done forever. A multitude has done more and done it better. A multitude has not or done it worse. Bottomline is it does not impact me and my family, just do.
The expectation that it should all be easy is a rather recent viewpoint. Most of the US generations have thought the opposite, life, marriage, raising kids is work. There are always challenges and every generation has had to overcome them. There is no one "golden" generation that had everything their way. There are always going to be political issues beyond our control, how you live your life is up to you and make the best of what you can.
If worrying about the Border, the stability of the US dollar, and the fact some speak different languages is preventing you from living. You need to step away from the news and get a little perspective.
I think the issue is up until this point most generations at least expected their children to have a better life than they did. However, for the first time in American history I can say I would expect my children's generation, the children being born today, to have a lower quality of life, lower standard of living, and less freedoms than my generation had,
Well, I guess there are several points there.
First, this may be a bit of a Libertarian view, but isn't it up to the families and the people to make their life better? The ingredients are all there. The world is what you make it. My Dad couldn't afford a house in Queens, so we moved to Long Island he commuted 30 miles one way. That was 1969.
Second, whose to say it won't be? Just the quality of products and health care will be better. My 72 Monte Carlo can't hold a candle to my F150. Diseases that used to be a death sentence are now treatable. My kids have access to information I could only dream of in 1975. Educational access to better yourself is much more accessible. So, I am not sure I buy that.
Third, what is the definition of better? As i said, that expectation may not have changed, but it seems it is expected earlier. People 3 years on the job after college complaining they can't buy a house.
I don't know, I see alot of younger people doing very well. If the expectation is that you can leave HS go to a factory and buy a 4 BR home? Yeah, that may not be happening. Or, like the past you have to move to certain locations.
Less freedoms? What freedoms have you lost?? Seriously, what can't we do now that we used to be able to do?